Deliveries run on a Mongo job queue with leases, backoff and per-host limits

The single serial DeliveryWorker is replaced by Infrastructure/Jobs:
- Job rows are leased with one FindOneAndUpdate (oldest RunAt first, a
  two-minute lease) and a reaper returns expired leases every 30 s;
- enqueueing wakes the workers, which otherwise poll every five seconds;
- delivery runs eight at a time with at most two per host, so a slow or
  dead server holds two slots, not the queue;
- a failure waits n^4 + 15 + jitter seconds (Mastodon's curve) for up to
  16 attempts; a 4xx other than 408/429 is final, a 429 honours
  Retry-After;
- RemoteInstance is a per-host circuit breaker: ten consecutive failures
  quarantine a host for an hour, doubling to a week, and its jobs wait
  without spending attempts;
- a delivery is queued once per activity and inbox (unique DedupeKey), and
  finished jobs expire after seven days (TTL on FinishedAt).

Migration _004 moves pending Delivery rows into jobs and marks them
abandoned, so a rollback to the old worker cannot send them twice.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012CzABvBkbcFqoHdmi8b9WB

PrivaPub.Tests/Infrastructure/IndexTests.cs

@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@ namespace PrivaPub.Tests.Infrastructure
 		{
 			Assert.SkipUnless(MongoFixture.Enabled, MongoFixture.Skip);
 			var token = TestContext.Current.CancellationToken;
+			await DB.Default.Index<ForeignAvatar>().DropAllAsync(token);
+			await DB.Default.Index<Follower>().DropAllAsync(token);
 			var actorUri = $"https://r.example/users/{Guid.NewGuid():N}";
 			var localId = Guid.NewGuid().ToString("N")[..24];
 			await DB.Default.SaveAsync(new[]
@@ -48,7 +50,6 @@ namespace PrivaPub.Tests.Infrastructure
 		{
 			Assert.SkipUnless(MongoFixture.Enabled, MongoFixture.Skip);
 			var token = TestContext.Current.CancellationToken;
-			await Indexes.Create(token);
 			var local = new LocalActorService(new DbEntities(), new StaticOptions<AppConfiguration>(new AppConfiguration { BackendBaseAddress = "https://privapub.test" }));
 			var name = $"n{Guid.NewGuid():N}"[..20];