P5: downvotes, private messages from Lemmy, late Creates of deleted posts, and typed details for clients

- Dislike and its Undo are kept as downvotes (Lemmy, PieFed, Mbin, Friendica) and shown with favourites as votes.
- ChatMessage (Lemmy 0.19, Mbin, PieFed to those two) arrives as a direct message.
- A deleted object's id is remembered for 90 days, so a Create that arrives after its Delete cannot bring the post
  back; the post's ObjectRecord goes with it.
- A Join of one of our objects is answered with Ignore, as FEP-8a8e asks of a server without RSVP.
- A 503 with Retry-After is waited out like a 429 instead of counting as a failure of the host (GoToSocial throttling,
  Mastodon's temporary key failures).
- Status.privapub carries what a Mastodon Status cannot: object type, title, excerpt, cover, the author's source,
  link, video, audio and event details, and up/down votes, with every media URL proxied.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012CzABvBkbcFqoHdmi8b9WB

PrivaPub/Infrastructure/Data/Indexes.cs

@@ -13,6 +13,8 @@ namespace PrivaPub.Infrastructure.Data
 {
 	public static class Indexes
 	{
+		public static readonly TimeSpan TombstoneLifetime = TimeSpan.FromDays(90);
+
 		public static async Task Create(CancellationToken token = default)
 		{
 			await Unique<Post>(p => p.ObjectURI, Builders<Post>.Filter.Type(p => p.ObjectURI, BsonType.String), token);
@@ -104,6 +106,10 @@ namespace PrivaPub.Infrastructure.Data
 			await Unique<RemoteInstance>(i => i.Host, Builders<RemoteInstance>.Filter.Type(i => i.Host, BsonType.String), token);
 			await Unique<ObjectRecord>(r => r.ObjectURI, Builders<ObjectRecord>.Filter.Type(r => r.ObjectURI, BsonType.String), token);
 			await Plain<ObjectRecord>(token, r => r.PostId);
+			await Unique<DeletedObject>(d => d.ObjectURI, Builders<DeletedObject>.Filter.Type(d => d.ObjectURI, BsonType.String), token);
+			await DB.Default.Index<DeletedObject>().Key(d => d.DeletedAt, KeyType.Ascending).Option(o => o.ExpireAfter = TombstoneLifetime).CreateAsync(token);
+			await DB.Default.Index<Downvote>().Key(d => d.PostId, KeyType.Ascending).Key(d => d.ActorURI, KeyType.Ascending).Option(o => o.Unique = true).CreateAsync(token);
+			await Plain<Downvote>(token, d => d.ActivityURI);
 		}
 
 		static async Task Unique<T>(System.Linq.Expressions.Expression<Func<T, object>> key, FilterDefinition<T> partial,