P5: downvotes, private messages from Lemmy, late Creates of deleted posts, and typed details for clients

- Dislike and its Undo are kept as downvotes (Lemmy, PieFed, Mbin, Friendica) and shown with favourites as votes.
- ChatMessage (Lemmy 0.19, Mbin, PieFed to those two) arrives as a direct message.
- A deleted object's id is remembered for 90 days, so a Create that arrives after its Delete cannot bring the post
  back; the post's ObjectRecord goes with it.
- A Join of one of our objects is answered with Ignore, as FEP-8a8e asks of a server without RSVP.
- A 503 with Retry-After is waited out like a 429 instead of counting as a failure of the host (GoToSocial throttling,
  Mastodon's temporary key failures).
- Status.privapub carries what a Mastodon Status cannot: object type, title, excerpt, cover, the author's source,
  link, video, audio and event details, and up/down votes, with every media URL proxied.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012CzABvBkbcFqoHdmi8b9WB

PrivaPub/Federation/Objects/NoteParser.cs

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ namespace PrivaPub.Federation.Objects
 
 	public static class NoteParser
 	{
-		static readonly string[] NoteTypes = { "Note", "Article", "Page", "Question", "Event", "Video", "Audio", "Image" };
+		static readonly string[] NoteTypes = { "Note", "Article", "Page", "Question", "Event", "Video", "Audio", "Image", "ChatMessage" };
 		const int MaxAttachments = 16;
 		const int MaxTags = 64;