The inbox answers once it has verified, and processes from the job queue

InboxService is split the way the roadmap lays out Federation/Inbox:
- InboxReceiver reads and verifies the request exactly as before, runs
  the checks that need no fetch (the activity id's origin, a Follow of a
  missing or local-only actor, an Undo of someone else's activity, an
  embedded object attributed to someone else), queues a ProcessInbox job
  and answers 202. The job's dedupe key is the activity id, so a peer that
  delivers the same activity twice is processed once.
- InboxProcessor (two at a time, eight attempts) loads the verified actor
  and hands the activity to the handler for its type.
- Handlers/{Follow,Undo,Create,Delete,Update}Handler are the old methods,
  unchanged except that they no longer produce status codes; the JSON
  helpers live in Objects/ActivityJson and the group membership helpers in
  Inbox/ForeignMembers.

A slow fetch of an object or a remote actor now delays the job, not the
sender's HTTP request.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012CzABvBkbcFqoHdmi8b9WB

PrivaPub/Federation/Inbox/ForeignMembers.cs

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+using MongoDB.Entities;
+
+using PrivaPub.Federation.Actors;
+using PrivaPub.Models.Federation;
+using PrivaPub.Models.Group;
+
+using GroupEntity = PrivaPub.Models.Group.Group;
+
+namespace PrivaPub.Federation.Inbox
+{
+	public static class ForeignMembers
+	{
+		public static async Task<bool> IsAcceptedFollower(LocalActor group, string actorUri, CancellationToken token) =>
+			await DB.Default.Find<Follower>()
+				.Match(f => f.LocalActorId == group.Id && f.LocalActorKind == LocalActorKind.Group && f.ActorURI == actorUri && f.IsAccepted)
+				.ExecuteAnyAsync(token);
+
+		public static async Task AddForeignMember(string groupId, string actorUri, CancellationToken token)
+		{
+			var group = await DB.Default.Find<GroupEntity>().MatchID(groupId).ExecuteFirstAsync(token);
+			if (group == default || group.Members.Any(m => m.IsForeign && m.AvatarId == actorUri))
+				return;
+			group.Members.Add(new GroupMember { AvatarId = actorUri, IsForeign = true });
+			group.UpdatedAt = DateTime.UtcNow;
+			await DB.Default.SaveAsync(group, token);
+		}
+
+		public static async Task RemoveForeignMember(string groupId, string actorUri, CancellationToken token)
+		{
+			var group = await DB.Default.Find<GroupEntity>().MatchID(groupId).ExecuteFirstAsync(token);
+			if (group == default || group.Members.RemoveAll(m => m.IsForeign && m.AvatarId == actorUri) == 0)
+				return;
+			group.UpdatedAt = DateTime.UtcNow;
+			await DB.Default.SaveAsync<GroupEntity>(group, token);
+		}
+	}
+}