Personas can follow: locally at once, remotely by Follow and Accept

Following records what a local persona follows, local or remote, with
its state and the Follow activity's id. FollowService (behind
/clientapi/follow, /clientapi/unfollow and /clientapi/following):
- resolves @user, user@host or an actor URI;
- a local account is followed in-process: accepted unless it approves
  followers by hand, a Follower row on the other side, a community gains
  the persona as a member, and a Follow or FollowRequest notification;
- a remote account gets a Follow signed by the persona, at
  /grunts/follow-{id}, and stays Requested until an Accept;
- unfollowing deletes the rows, or sends Undo{Follow} to a remote account.

Inbound Accept and Reject are matched to the Follow by its id (or, for an
embedded Follow without one, by its actor), and only from the account that
was followed. A remote Follow now notifies the persona too.

Notification is the per-persona record P1.2 builds on, deduplicated by
type, persona, sender and post. TimelineEntry and Favourite are created
with their indexes for the next commits.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012CzABvBkbcFqoHdmi8b9WB

PrivaPub/Federation/Inbox/Handlers/AcceptHandler.cs

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+using MongoDB.Entities;
+
+using PrivaPub.Federation.Actors;
+using PrivaPub.Models.Social;
+using PrivaPub.Models.User;
+using PrivaPub.StaticServices;
+
+using System.Text.Json.Nodes;
+
+using static PrivaPub.Federation.Objects.ActivityJson;
+
+namespace PrivaPub.Federation.Inbox.Handlers
+{
+	public class AcceptHandler : IActivityHandler
+	{
+		readonly DbEntities _dbEntities;
+		readonly ILocalActorService _localActors;
+
+		public AcceptHandler(DbEntities dbEntities, ILocalActorService localActors)
+		{
+			_dbEntities = dbEntities;
+			_localActors = localActors;
+		}
+
+		public virtual string Type => "Accept";
+
+		public async Task Handle(JsonNode activity, ForeignAvatar actor, CancellationToken token)
+		{
+			var following = await FindFollowing(activity["object"], actor, _dbEntities, _localActors, token);
+			if (following == default)
+				return;
+			await Apply(following, token);
+		}
+
+		protected virtual Task Apply(Following following, CancellationToken token) =>
+			DB.Default.Update<Following>().MatchID(following.ID).Modify(f => f.State, FollowState.Accepted).ExecuteAsync(token);
+
+		public static async Task<Following> FindFollowing(JsonNode follow, ForeignAvatar target, DbEntities dbEntities, ILocalActorService localActors,
+			CancellationToken token)
+		{
+			if (follow is JsonObject && Value(follow, "type") is { } type && type != "Follow")
+				return default;
+			var followId = Id(follow);
+			var byId = followId == default
+				? default
+				: await dbEntities.Followings.Match(f => f.FollowActivityURI == followId && f.TargetActorURI == target.ActorURI).ExecuteFirstAsync(token);
+			if (byId != default || follow is not JsonObject)
+				return byId;
+
+			var follower = await localActors.FindByUri(Id(follow["actor"]), token);
+			return follower == default
+				? default
+				: await dbEntities.Followings.Match(f => f.AvatarId == follower.Id && f.TargetActorURI == target.ActorURI).ExecuteFirstAsync(token);
+		}
+	}
+
+	public class RejectHandler : AcceptHandler
+	{
+		public RejectHandler(DbEntities dbEntities, ILocalActorService localActors) : base(dbEntities, localActors)
+		{
+		}
+
+		public override string Type => "Reject";
+
+		protected override Task Apply(Following following, CancellationToken token) => DB.Default.DeleteAsync<Following>(following.ID);
+	}
+}